You will find all messages in your personal mailbox. Here, you have the option of hiding entire conversations or marking messages that have not yet been opened as “read”.
As soon as you are logged into your profile, you can use the briefcase icon in the quick selection bar to see whether and how many new messages you have received.
Your inbox is divided into 3 areas for better organization:
- An overview of all messages
- Messages from your favorites (so that you can find messages from members who are high on your favorites list more quickly)
- Messages from users who are currently online.
In your inbox, you will find a list of all the people who have sent you a message or with whom you have already written. As soon as you click/tap on one of these messages, its content will be displayed.
Use the input field to search for specific member names within your inbox.
Write your message in the input field below, add smileys or photos, and click/tap on the small carrier pigeon symbol on the right to send.
You can also send a date request from the messaging system by clicking/tapping on the small calendar symbol on the left.
The 3 small dots open a submenu in which the following actions can be selected:
- “Unread” - to mark unread messages as read.
- “Report” - to report this conversation
- “Ignore” - to add this user to your ignore list.
- “Hide” - to hide this message content until you contact them again.
- “Delete” - to completely remove this message content from your list.
As long as no messages or date requests have been exchanged between two people, we refer to this as first contact.
There are different first contact limits for Basic and Plus members. However, there is no message limit on our website.