Some escorts add up to three questions of their own that you can answer directly when messaging them for the first time. Instead of staring at an empty text field, you know exactly what the escort wants to find out. The questions come from the escort themselves — Kaufmich doesn't set them.
When will I see Icebreaker Questions?
The feature is currently running as a test — not all clients will see it. If you don't see any Icebreaker Questions when messaging an escort for the first time, that's not an error: either the escort hasn't activated the feature, or you're not yet part of the test group. Icebreaker Questions only appear for first messages — if you reopen an older conversation, they won't show up.
Do I have to answer the questions?
No. Answering is optional. The regular message field stays open the whole time — you can close the Icebreaker at any point and just write freely. If you do use the Icebreaker: questions marked as required must be answered within the flow. All others can be skipped.
How does it work?
1. You see the questions one at a time.
2. You answer in your own words, free text — up to 1,000 characters per answer.
3. Optional questions can be skipped; use "Back" to return to your answers.
4. At the end you see an overview of all questions and answers. Your message is only sent once you tap Send.
What does the escort see?
A message with your questions and answers listed one below the other, marked with the ice cube symbol. Skipped questions are marked as skipped. After that, you can continue writing normally.
Are my answers checked or changed by AI?
No. Your answers are sent exactly as you typed them — nothing is generated, rewritten, or evaluated.
Is this worth it?
Yes. A first message with real content gets a reply far more often than a "Hi". The Icebreaker tells you exactly what this escort cares about.